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Friday, February 10, 2012

On The Issue of Marriage Equality for Gay Couples


The issue here is a spiritual one, not one based on loving or not loving someone.  It is not about equality, nor about rights.  The gay community is not a minority but a group of people who wish to gain minority status based upon choice of lifestyle.  Certainly in this free country, a person has the freedom to live his life as he chooses.  

But, the legal issue of marriage is a matter of belief in the validity, inerrancy, and power of God’s Word, which very clearly states that marriage is to be between one man and one woman, and the homosexual lifestyle is not permitted.  It is not about how we feel, nor about the struggles we face, nor about what we want; it is about obedience to the Word of God, and following Him, according to His Word.  If a person is not a believer in Jehovah God Almighty, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and does not believe that the Bible is the inspired Word of God, then certainly it is easy to understand why he does not agree nor understand what the Bible teaches and what are the parameters on this subject. 

Of course, there are many places in the Scripture where sexual issues and sexual immorality are discussed, and where sexual immorality is clearly prohibited…just one of them is Romans 1:18-32.  If you should desire to read even a small portion of what God has to say about this subject, here it is:

Romans 1:18-32

·       18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, 
·       19 because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them. 
·       20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse. 
·       21 For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 
·       22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 
·       23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.
·       24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. 
·       25 For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
·       26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 
·       27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.
·       28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 
·       29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, 
·       30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 
·       31 without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; 
·       32 and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.”


I have had many friends through the years who have lived and do live a gay lifestyle; I love them dearly.  I do not wish them harm and ill-will – I wish them joy and abundant life!  They are my friends and precious creations of God.   My desire is that they will seek to know the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, and to believe in the Truth of what He says in His Word.  The issue of homosexuality is one that I gladly leave at the foot of the Cross, because until a person is convinced of and surrendered to the Lordship of Jesus Christ in his life, and the Truth of God’s Word, the argument is in vain.  The Holy Spirit is the One Who convicts the world of sin and righteousness and judgment (John 16:8) and I know I can trust Him to do His work.

I do not accept and condone the gay lifestyle because God’s Word teaches that homosexuality is wrong, as is sexual sin of any kind.  The Bible also teaches that sexual sin is different than any other kind of sin, because it is a sin against one’s own body.  Another place in Scripture where these issues are dealt with is in 1 Corinthians 6.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11, 15-20

·       9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 
·       10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 
·       11 Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.

·       15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! 
·       16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “The two shall become one flesh.” 
·       17 But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 
·       18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 
·       19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 
·       20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”

I know that there are many of you out there who disagree with what I have written here, but I am confident that your argument is not with me, but with God’s Word.  If you do not believe that God’s Word IS God’s Word, then our discussion stops there.  I do believe it is true, it is real, it is living and active, and it is valid in this world today. 

Jesus said, “I AM the Way, and the Truth and the Life.  No one comes to the Father but through Me.”    John 14:6

Amy Stuart Stockwell
2/10/2012

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